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thanks md lady, appreciate the input!

hi bryan, eading your posts have bene helpful. i am torn by the renaissance's privacy and the westin and maybe hyatt and marriott's rooms. i had heard that the renaissance's rooms might not be as nice as some of the others, although the wedding accomodations might be spectacular...your thoughts? and how public are the weddings at the hotels i mentioned. thanks!

Hi. I'm trying to plan for a NOvember 2011 wedding there in ARuba, which i loved (ive gone before). Im just really stressing on finding the right hotel/wedding location. i want to be able to do all-inclusive for my gusts, but also dont know how many of hte "traditional" destination wedding norms i'm going to do or should do or even what they all are: pay for attendants accomodations, how many dinners, breakfasts, etc...so any help would be appreciated. i am kind of torn between renaissance, westin, possibly the marriott or hyatt, but then my TA is pushing the Occidental...any help would be appreciated to call my type A self. thanks.

im hoping for a late 2011 wedding in aruba, im thinking november. i got engaged end of 2010 and am hoping the two year thing everyone is talking about isnt a must. i feel soo overwhelmed already!