My cousin and her fiance are planning a destination wedding for (hopefully) April or May of 2008. I'm helping to coordinate the wedding, a travel agent, and a bridesmaid (plus the bride is my best friend so I feel honored just to be a part of this experience)! So even though I'm not the bride, I've been helping with the research and stumbled across this site. She'll also be posting on her wedding and though we haven't had much time to look at all the site has to offer yet, we both agree this is an AMAZING resource! Wow! She was kind of sold on Dreams Cancun, but dates weren't available for the months she wanted, then we looked at relocating to Dreams Tulum but due to posts on this site we realize we need to look at another resort chain as they want a DJ to play well past 10:30 p.m. and it appears that Dreams requires it to be shut down by that time. So, we are back on the hunt. The resort needs to allow children, be able to accomodate @ 150 guests at a wedding, and if music needs to be shut down early - then it needs a club for partying. So that is our challenge. I'm sure we'll gain some very useful info from all the posts on the site. Congrats to all the brides to be on the site. I got married at Couples Ocho Rios on 02/02/02. I wouldn't have done it any other way - what a relaxing way to "tie the knot"!