The main idea is that you like everything. Be frank with yourself and your girlfriend. Just take and tear off to the fullest, using all permissible means. At the expense of a stripper, I agree, this is a great variant, then to become an obedient husband, have a bachelor party!)
I was also in this situation, I was afraid to try. But a friend advised a great site https://escortmannheim.info, where everything is reliable and proven over the years. There you will not go wrong. We went, chose a girl for the evening and enjoy.
I think that everyone should choose it independently. Someone is having fun with friends and strippers (as I did), and someone gets pleasure from relaxing gatherings in the company. I advise you to consult with your future wife! Before you call girls if that;)
I do not know who advises you what, but it is better to choose according to your taste. What do you prefer? I like the variety and find it here on this service
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