Hi everyone!
I have, I think, read through most of the 700 some-odd posts in this thread. I say, "I think" because I can't keep track!
GHP is our top choice for December 2015. I haven't yet decided on which location, but I love that the three resorts are connected. We have a large group coming, and I'm not sure it would be fun for ALL of us to be together for 7-10 days. It's a very mixed group... but that's a long story
A few specific questions:
1. Has anyone done a morning ceremony at this location? Sunrise is a significant time for us, and it would make sense... it'd be perfect. Plus, we have a a lot of young kids coming so evenings will get grumpier and grumpier...
...and, a part B to that question...could we then do like a brunch or something after (rather than dinner)? Then we can celebrate all day... ? Hmm...
2. Our son will be 3 1/2 at that time... and we've been together for 10 years and are the last in our group to get married SO there will be 10-15 other kids age 2-10 there. We are considering NOT having a formal reception... we aren't really into many of the "traditional" wedding things (this dance and that dance, speeches...) which is why we are having a destination wedding in the first place... and with all the kids, maybe it will be a waste?
I'm rambling... I guess I'm asking, what are the other options? If we do dinner, then maybe the "younger" crowd can meet up later in the evening? We have talked about pitching in to pay for someone who can hang with the kids...
I don't know what I'm even asking haha... at that stage where I am trying to balance expectations of a "wedding" (in quotation marks) and what will work for us.
Oh, and 3. We would like a symbolic ceremony. My FI's best friend of 30 years, his dad would be our minister if we got married here. He has already confirmed to come, and he can't actually MARRY us there but we thought if we took care of the paperwork in Canada before we left, he could still play a significant role in the ceremony. Am I way off in thinking that's possible? Or is it very strict in what we are able to do?
OK these are random questions... ack!
Thanks. P.S. I love this forum...