Hi Would you still have the wedding co-ordinators email? Our travel agent is saying arriving on a Wed is good enough for a wedding on a Monday. I think there needs to be more days to qualify for the 4 day arrival period and get everything done. I assume you did a marriage ceremony with the Judge that is legal in Mexico and then in the US. How far ahead did you arrive 4 full days? Thanks for any input and if you have any suggestions comments... wedding is on for Jan. 13 2014