I'm not married yet, January 2014 is coming soon tho! There are many reasons why we chose the Sapphire! One of the biggest reasons was the wedding packages! We looked into many resorts and they have so many more of the little things for the bride/groom that others don't...private dinner on the beach, couples massage, breakfast in bed the morning after wedding, bride getting hair/make-up done, etc. The actual wedding package for the ceremony and such is similar to others but its the little extras that stuck out! Of course its a beautiful resort! All the food seems to get great reviews! We def like to get our party on w/our fam/guests so it was big to us that they had a little bar/club for late night. It seems random if its busy or not, but we will have a group of 45 people so I'm sure we will be our own lil party on nites we decide to go lol!