LosingFaith

He did put a deposit down last September on a trip to Myrtle Beach for our honeymoon; However since our original date was postponed, they gave us a year to reschedule.... that was up last month ... Sooo, that's where that is.

His family is all for the wedding and some are a little frustrated that it keeps getting postponed, like myself. I guess we'll just have to see how it goes.. Maybe you're right, a summer 2013 date could give more time to prepare but also more time to stress about last minute postponing again... At which point I'd probably just cut my losses

I guess it does kind of seem like a pretty short engagement; However, we were "unofficially" engaged for a while before he got the ring and made formal proposal. So it hasn't really been all that rushed. Luckily our family and friends are all fairly close so no long trips for anyone. As far as our honeymoon goes, we haven't booked anything yet.

Honestly part of me thinks he is just too comfortable. We have lived together for 2 1/2 yrs and he refers to me as his wife, I feel like i'm kinda taken advantage of :/ but then I feel selfish for thinking that lol. Part of me still wants to plan, but I'm afraid to set a date and have yet another let down . I want to be excited, like every other bride to be, and feel confident in the date. I don't know when to throw in the towel, so I don't look like a fool once again. Am I being too dramatic? Sry, I just feel like it's been a roller coaster ride. :/

My Fiance and I have been together for 3 yrs and engaged for 8 months. We have set a date 3 times; the first time I started planning and then we decided we didn't have enough time or money to keep that date. The second time I never even started planning because I was frustrated from postponing the first time and my Fiance hasn't shown an interest in planning anything. So, needless to say that date came and went. Our third attempt was set for October 13, 2012 and now that has been delayed. He said something about going to the JP and then having a ceremony at a later date. I don't feel good about that because of the lack of interest he has shown in a real "wedding" thus far, I am afraid I would never have that. Now I am just lost, I am battling feelings of just wanting to leave. I feel like if he really wanted this wedding he would halfway make an attempt to help plan and keep a wedding date. I don't even want to set another one Am I being stupid? I don't want to over-react.. I need advice PLEASE :/