Hi Kcharles17, Congratulations!! Thank you for your reply. I completely understand how you are feeling. My dad actually asked, "why we decided to have a Destination wedding?" I actually started to question myself if we made the right decision. But after thinking about it this is what my finance' and I want. Like my matron of honor shared with me, "those people who really care about us will be there." I'm not going to stress about this anymore. I am exciting for our wedding celebration. If you don't mind me asking what travel agency did you go through to help plan your destination wedding, and are you doing all the planning yourself?