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I was curious about menus too!  I'm having the hardest time deciding...

I have to pick 2 cocktail menus and 2 dinner...  One is the wedding and the other is our farewell dinner...

Do they let you substitute at all?  I have a few non pork eaters and one severe nut allergy.

::update::

we got legal about 10 days ago now and are so happy we did it!  

That said- it has in no way diminished my excitement for the 'big' day in Mexico!  I anyone wants the information on a great officiant that comes to your house (!!)  let me know!

Rev. Mandi Neiser came to our house and we did a quietly meaningful consenting of marriage in our backyard.  We live in Toronto and she does the golden horseshoe, so anything Etobicoke to Niagara- she is based in Stoney Creek.  PM me and I'd be happy to give you her info.

great idea! I was looking for the same kind of list

I love your VAVAVOOM!!! comment Michèle!!!!  LOL What is so odd is that when I first came across this gown on the Maggie Sottero site I thought to myself...this is a gown you'd see on a goddess...it just has that Goddess look to it. So thank you for your support and wonderful Greek/Canadian Goddess comment. Norma Quote:

We have been to 6 DW.  Two of them were legal in the islands, and the rest were legally married in Canada before going.  

Now that it is our turn- we are absolutely getting it done legally here.  The wedding couple were a whirlwind prior to the wedding because of blood tests and meetings etc..  The weddings that were legally done in Canada first, enjoyed time on the beach, margaritas in hand with friends and family.

We have an officiant coming to our house, we will sign papers with 2 witnesses.  No kiss, no ring, no fanfare.  That said- the date is significant- it will be 4 years to the day we met.

Our wedding day (2mos later) will be considered as the day we speak our vows in Playa- then the kiss and the ring and the fanfare!

MOVE!!!!  lol-  we are too- one week with everyone and then we move to the adults only sister property for a week.

Hi ladies!

I'm not a now sapphire bride, but was just there on vacation.  I thought I would drop in and say that while we were there, we saw 4 weddings and every one of them was gorgeous!

Absolutely beautiful setups, decor, staff EVERYTHING!!  I spoke to two of the brides and they were very happy with the outcome.  

Congratulations to all of you and you have chosen a FANTASTIC location!  BEST ROOMS- buildings 2,3,4 on the beach- close to lobby bar, pool etc..  

We had room 427 and it was amazing- unobstructed view of the ocean and a hot tub on the balcony...

thanks you so much for sharing!  I was stumped with something and you totally triggered me to action!  

You will make such a stunning bride and i wish you muchas buenos as you embark on your journey!

really beautiful!  I see you are Canadian- where did you get that dress??
 

Originally Posted by ashley1316 

I wore my real dress for the Trash the Dress session.

Here are a few of my pics.

 

 

 

I didnt end up keeping my dress as it was real dirty and smelt super bad lol. But I cut off some items of the dress and did a shadow box.

I agree!  PLAYACAR here I come!

It's a shame MX is getting such a bad rap...  Just 2 days ago a work colleague asked me why I would put my guests " in danger like that, to go to your wedding?  "  I replied, "well, quite frankly, you are not on my list, and 46 other people disagree. "

Dumba$$. 

too funny!  Im allergic to bees...  You just reminded me to make sure my MOH packs my epi-pen with her for the day!! LOL.  BTW- beautiful dress!
 

Originally Posted by novbride 

Hi Ladies!

I've been super busy with work lately, so I haven't been on this site for a while.  I forgot all about it, until we started planning our next trip to Playacar  We are thinking about going back in November!  If anyone has questions or wants to see pictures, please feel free to PM me.  I have tons of pictures, but don't want to post them all publicly.

 

If you want to see a super funny clip from our wedding, the link is below.  Don't worry - it won't happen to you - I just have that kind of luck... But, I'm glad it happened because it certainly made the wedding unforgettable! (FYI - none of this video was shot by Playacar Palace photographers.  It was all taken by family members.)

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bAk6AFRT2M

Hi RMbride2b,

I have the same issue with the strong arm tactics of Palace.  I'm not paying $300 for 20 mins of microphone.  ITS RIDICULOUS.

That said- we are bringing our BOSE, wireless speakers, our laptop and a microphone.  We tried it out in the backyard a few weeks ago and it sounds great!  Initially, I didn't want to lug everything, but considering the Bose usage for our reception as well?  Why not?

I would urge you to try it out. Do you have someone " techhie" coming to your wedding?

sometimes you just have to wash your hands of people. So sorry

I think its a great idea- I wish i had done it  

great advice.  Thank you
 

Originally Posted by bgarcia1026 

I've had a mix of both, some people avoiding us and others telling us that they are going to go, and we haven't even sent out invites yet.

 

I guess one of the reasons why we decided on having a destination wedding was that we wanted to be selective when inviting people.  We want our wedding to be a more intimate affair, with people being there that want to be there and that will celebrate our marriage, not because they are obligated to.

 

I come from a very Cuban family, where if I had a wedding in New York, everyone and their mother/father/sister and brother would have had to be invited, even if I don't know them.  Choosing a destination wedding cuts all that drama out, and is easier on our pockets too.

 

Focus on the people that can be there.  If you are as important to them as they are to you, then they will make it, or be genuine in their reasoning why they can't.

 

 

This thread brought tears to my eyes this morning.

Imagine this- My FSIL started off on board.  We chose a location SPECIFICALLY that would be child friendly to accommodate her brood, (and others).  After picking location etc...  she all of a sudden was afraid to fly.  No way that her 3 children and husband would go on one plane.  (she almost went to Italy with those 3 children last year, mind you)

She back and forthed bw fear and expense.  Last week we were shopping, and we have not spoken wedding in months!  Out of the blue, she brings up Mexico and plainly says- " Five thousand for all of us for one week is too expensive, we can go to Italy for a month for that."  

What makes people think that bc it is a destination wedding they can be so hurtful?  Her BROTHER is getting married. AND!  He bends over backwards for her.  I gave people 13 months to plan and save.  Our TA gave people payment plans if they so wish.  

I wish she would avoid me.  I'm sorry- I know my post is a little off side.  Thanks you all for listening.

try coverfx matte fx powder. It comes in 3 colours, but very light so you can reapply and it won't get cakey.

don't do it. The shakes re good, but they do not satiate hunger.

Great thread!  Can't wait to see your pictures-I'm also wearing a lot of red i- by Chelsea!!!

They have them online in your size and if you order before tomorrow there is a 30% off coupon.  Not sure if the coupon covers everything but it might be worth checking out.  

maybe just before he announces us? Before we kiss?

Hi!

Playacar Palace 10.10.12!  So far planning has been good and bad....

But at the end of the day- we will be married with my toes in the sand!  Life is go

od!

Hi fellow Canadian brides!

I was at Old Navy today and just a heads up for anyone wanting starfish flip flop sandals.  Super cute- gold and blingy- leather sole for 19.94.  NONE in my size...  Have to go search- but- lots of bigger sizes!  I'm a 6.

do you live near a David's? I was just there and they have a great selection in cocktail section! I'm a 14/16 in DB and the large fit wonderfully. There was quite a few in white and ivory. Also- check sears online- very surprising. You can order to your door,then if you hate it,return to an actual store.

our pre trip brochure states Sand between your toes Elegance 'the wedding is at 4pm on the beach. Be comfortable! Leave your suit and tie at home, but please no shorts. By the way, be barefoot! The bride will be! Sandals and heels will be great for dining and dancing as we will be under the stars, but on firm ground.