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@ Lily Rose, I think with teens, you might be better off to tell them to leave the phones. They can be kinda sneaky about using them when they think you're not looking...

Thank you all for your welcomes! I'll keep my eyes open for helpful info, and reading some of the older posts has been helpful too. My fiance is pretty hands off too, except when it came to choosing the honeymoon resort. He turned into a primadonna for that one! I think in some ways its nice for one person in the couple to not be stressed. There's someone to help maintain the sanity!

Thanks for the reply wilsonj2! We are having a Catholic wedding, at the Benedictine Chapel in Castries. I considered Sandals, but with a church wedding, their packages wouldn't have applied. We will be staying at Windjammer most likely before the actual wedding, and moving to Cap for our actual wedding.

Hi, I'm pretty new to the site and had been inactive until right now. So many of the posts here, sound like you girls are going to have and have had some pretty amazing weddings! So, I'm hoping you ladies can help me. I'm getting married in St. Lucia on 11/11/11, and I although I love the idea (and end result) of a destination wedding, it has it's own set of stressors that are unique! I have a wedding planner, but I've found now, that I want to hear from real brides and not just the people selling me stuff! What are you all doing about flowers? Any excellent photographer recommendations? My planner has us booked with Bill Mortley, who seems ok, but I have been wondering if there are others out there, who are great but less known. Have any of you stayed at Cap Maison? We are staying there, and I wonder what others' experiences may be. Thank you ladies in advance, and I SO look forward to hearing from you!