Thanks, I really am struggling with these silly "packages" resorts offer for extra money. I don't want to be cheap by any means, but we're already paying a lot to travel and stay in a higher end room for these all-inclusive resorts so I am finding it hard to justify the extra costs for a reception. I feel like we're paying double since we're already paying once for food/drinks.
Has anyone forgone the traditional reception route and just had the ceremony on the beach w/toast and cake? Suggestions on great things to do after wards? I wouldn't mind getting a table at the resort restaurant for dinner, and then having drinks/dancing later. It really doesn't have to be private for my 20 guests. The hotel we're currently looking at is Secrets Wild Orchid, Jamaica in Montego.