Hey Erin, Congrats girl!! Your day is fast approaching!!! I'm so excited, and it's not even me going ;-) I know you'll have the wedding of your dreams!! Thanks for replying to my post. My confusion came from my TA -Dennis (through destinationwedding.com) - He kept telling me that We have to have the wedding at the actual hotel that we were physically staying at. But after reading the posts of the ladies here, I was like 'Wait a minute, this is different than what you've been telling us' Anywho, I tried asking him again, and same answer, this time with a little chillier attitude. So I went directly to the source, I sent an email to Reyna, and she confirmed what you ladies have been reporting. That you can stay at any of the Iberostar properties (ex. the Grand), and have your wedding at one of the different properties (Ex. Del Mar). So I'm excited about that, because FI and I want to stay at the Grand, and have our guests stay at Lindo (some will be bringing children), and after reading the reviews here, I now want to have my reception at the Del Mar, so I'm going to book my wedding through there! I hope this explanation wasn't too confusing, but that was the problem, and after my TA's attitude toward me, I'm now in the market for a new TA. You ladies have any suggestions???? Thanks, Ty