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Posts posted by jo&delo2010
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I totally understand you! My in laws (actually I really like them..not his sis but...) At firstt his mom told me not to worry about money...she said it over and over again. To me that means that they were going to help with the wedding so we didnt have to do a DW.
When we found out it was gonna be about 30k..compared to his sisters which was 50k..lol My FI said its either the house or the wedding. I was so upset .... Never again did my MIL mention anything about $ again...lol
When we decided to do a DW because of the cost..she kept saying for us not 2. That we needed to have the wedding where we live....
So show me the $$$$$$$$$$$ lol
Not to mention they have told their friends they are helping us when my FI has already payed for everything...lol
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None of my extended family has even said a word! Eventhough they are all on my facebook! They didnt even say anything about my invitation which were really nice and different. Oh well! -
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To make a long story short when I dropped him off for the weekend ..he didnt even look back at me! lol
When we picked him up...we both went inside and he didnt even notice us..lol Sad but true he likes her dogs better then us...lol Needless to say i feel 100 percent comfortable leaving him there for our wedding now! I also found out she works at our vet as well...so to me that is the best! She is kinda $$ $30 a day
I worried about him more when I had a friend stay at our house to watch him ..then I did leaving him with her. I would go to the vet techs house and check it out, at least you know that they love dogs,esp if they work at your vet -
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In a way all the comments have helped even if I dont agree with all of them. In the end Im gonna look great in my dress and have a great time drinking when she cant.
My Mother in law also told me to stop loosing weight! You would think I had an eating disorder by the speech she gave me..lol It's not my fault your daughter didnt loose weight for her wedding and it upset you...I'm healthy, happy and know that the time is now to take care of myself! Esp. when we plan to have a kid its very important to be in shape.
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I so wish my mom was gonna be here for my wedding..I truly believe if she was I wouldnt care so much about his sisters situation or his families. My family only consists of my sister and dad...so I look for that attention in his family and from his mom. I even lived with them for about 6 months before we bought our house, needless to say i think that made things worse with SIL. She would always say, why are you making that (food dish) for jo? She would look at me and say, do you know how long that takes to make? I think it bothers her that I am in the same city with her parents and she had to move a couple of hours away.
You never know what you truly have until you loose it! So when I hear my FI say something, or talk back to his mom..I tell him, be happy you have her even if she annoys you. One day you will miss her annoying ways! -
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Congrats and welcome!
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Im doing fushia I dont know how to post pics on here...but my BM dresses are from watters style #418.
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I would love to see your dress 2!
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I am trying hard to focus on the positive and I think this thread has helped me a lot -
He decided that he wants to wear a beige tux (it looks just like s suite)
The bridesmaids are wearing fushia...other hints of colors will be light pink and green.
He has a best man, my dad and his dad.
I would prefer that he is a little different from the other guys..any ideas?
Does anyone know of any good tie stores?
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Originally Posted by DDBentley15 This site has some good ideas:
Mother Son Dance Songs - Project Wedding
I'm thinking about using simple man, shinedown does a good cover of it that might be different.
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Im so sorry for your loss! My english bulldog is like my son...yes pets do have a special place in our hearts Just remember the good things and times you had with your cat!
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I would keep it all!!! Your dress is beautiful!!!
I would honestly just wear some chandelier earrings to bring attention to your face since your dress is so sparkly!The focus is you! I would want to notice your face first and then look down and comment what a stunning gown! Do they have earrings to match that set?
I would wear the necklace for another event that you might have...maybe the dinner the night before? And the bracelet would be great to wear with anything on your trip
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Where can I begin.... every one is prego! We have at least 4 or 5 couples. Including my sis in law.
Then some people cant afford it...but we gave plenty enough time for them to save money and I know some of their economic situations havent changed.
In the end ...I have started not to care! who goes .... goes and who doesnt? Missed out on a lot of fun
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If I had to do my bridesmaids over ...I would have just picked my Sister. I had 6...one is prego with twins and due on my wedding day, another has her cuz destination wedding the month after mine and cant afford 2 weddings, the last girl (my godmother) backed out the day the money was due for the dresses...lol
I know her pregancy will over - shadow our wedding because I know how she is. I also know there is nothing I can do about it. Its just gonna take some time ... and venting about it really helps -
Hmmm...guess I should have written this a little bit better then I did. These are just some bits and pieces of things that have happened.
During her wedding I had only know my FI maybe a couple of months. I helped her with her bridal shower, I took her to MAC and payed for the make up they used. They picked out a $300 dress at saks that they called me telling me I had to buy for her wedding. I Felt bad that they didnt have a bachlorette party for her so I went to an adult store and bought her $400 worth of fun stuff and took her out to eat.To be honest..I want his sis to like me, she is a couple years younger then me and we got along really well at first. After her wedding things changed?
I asked her several times over a period of time if there was anything wrong? I tried to be the adult and confront her and talk things out. She always told me everything was fine.
I even confronted her about what happened at our engagement party...there is alittle more to the story. When I told my FI what she had said he finally couldnt take it anymore and told his parents. His mom started crying and said my SI said things that I supp. said about my mother in law...which wasnt true. So I called his mom and apologized for the things that were supp said. I didnt want to blame anyone for anything. When i did confront his sis she started crying saying that I took her brother away from her? I said you are married and have your house and dogs? The way she talks you would think they hang out all the time..which they dont even go to lunch.
If it wasnt for me she wouldnt get any phone calls or anything from him..because he's not too good at that stuff. I'm the one who buys her gifts ...when she doesnt get us anything. And it isnt about a gift...she could send a card or could have helped with our engagement party. Needles to say....I stopped and I hardly do anything.
As far as her being prego...I did say that I hope she has a healthy pregnancy and baby. I am not supposed to know she had a miscarriage. The only reason i found out was because she kept not calling in the measurements for her bridesmaid dress. I kept sending little reminders via text and email and finally I had to tell my FI to call his mom. An hour before the store closed her measurements were turned in. If she had told me that she thought she was prego or anything I would have not kept sending emails/texts and bothering her. If she would just communicate with me! I cant feel sorry for her when she doesnt tell me things. She doesnt know know that Im upset ..I hugged her and told her congrats when she ran in with the preg. stick! I always try and do the right thing with her even when I don't feel like it. I was just using this blog to vent because theses are thoughts and feelings that I cant say.
At her wedding she got pissed that her cuz wife was prego...even though his wife waited till after her wedding to announce it.
My FI has 2 sets of friends that are waiting till after our wedding to start ....they said our wedding is the practice The one wife told me that it meant the world to them to see their friend get married and they wouldnt miss this for anything. I think we are very blessed to have them in our life!
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FI wants to wear Fushia tie?
in Destination Wedding Dresses, Wedding Attire & rings
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Amazon.com: BRAND NEW Mens Necktie Solid Fuchsia Pink Satin Neck TIE: Clothing
the striped one is from cheapneckties
Pink Neckties Pink & Fuchsia Striped Tie - ties shop - fine stripes
then here's a different striped one
Striped Mens Tie in White, Fuchsia, and Pink - ties shop - patterned stripes
Check out this site - they have several pink ties (including that striped one)
Pink Neckties - Coral Ties, Fuchsia Ties, Hot Pink Ties
hope you guys find one you like!