Boswin

Hi Girls- I'm Debbie and my Fiance and I are looking at a June '09 Wedding in Mexico. I'm having trouble deciding if it should be at a RIU hotel, which is gorgeous, maybe a bit dull at night for guests? Or at a Club Med, where we can have activities for guests all the time. Anyone have any suggestions? We'll have 40 people and 4 children 4yr+. Thanks! Debbie