I'm getting Married on May 8th,2012 at the Now Jade! Super excited, but ALREADY frustrated with Pilar, and all of the extra costs! Can anybody give me an idea of their experience with their wedding, as well as a rough idea of how much you ended up paying! ...or ideas on how I can make all of the a la carte prices stop adding up! I think its outrageous the price per person for the extra drink for the cocktail hour when everyone has already paid to have it all-inclusive!