PANIC............ONLY WORD I CAN TRULY COMPREHEND..... WE WERE PLANNING A NORMAL LARGE TRADITIONAL CEREMONY....MY GRANDFATHER HAS NOW BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH SERIOUS HEALTH PROBLEMS AND MOST LIKELY WILL NOT BE AROUND .. WELL SINCE THIS IS MY FATHERS ONLY PARENT LEFT IT HAS CAUSED HUGE AMOUNTS OF STRESS ON HIM.. WHICH HAS CAUSED HIM LOTS OF HEALTH PROBLEMS NOW RESULTING IN FINANCIAL PROBLEMS....SO WEDDINGS......NO LONGER.. HONEYMOON...ALREADY PAID FOR AND NON REFUNDABLE.... SO WE HAVE DECIDED TO TRY TO THROW TOGETHER A DESTINATION WEDDING FOR JUST HIM (TYLER) AND MYSELF (SHANNON) ... BUT FUNDS ARE LIMITED SINCE WE HAVE LOST DEPOSITS ECT....PLUS...ROOM AND FLIGHTS ARE BOOKED....OTHER THAN THAT...NOTHING ELSE...IF ANYONE CAN HELP AT ALL WITH FLOWERS, PHOTOGRAPHER, VIDEOGRAPHER,CLERGY/MINISTER (WHATEVER DOESNT MATTER)....OBTAINING MARRIAGE LICENSE, ECT. PLEASE DO.....FREAKING OUT I WONT BE A BRIDE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!