BarbieBride2011

Thanks!

Thanks. Great advice. I didn't really think of it in that way but you have a point as far as how she is going to be in my future regardless of how I feel about it. The interesting twist to this story though is that my brother doesn't care for his "fiancee" either! He admits that she is manipulative and annoying but that he just puts up with her. I don't even think he would WANT her to go, but would feel more obligated to invite her. Thanks for the good luck...I need it!

First let me say that I'm a newbie!!! So I'm uber excited for my Fall 2011 wedding next year- whooo hooo!!! But there's a huge issue-the wedding guest list. My brother who I obviously will invite is expecting to bring his fiancee to the wedding although I thought he and I had an understanding that only HE was invited. His fiancee doesn't get along with ANY of my family members. She is just ONE OF THOSE kind of people. I personally have had a terrible history with her too! Saying that we just don't get along would be a tremendous understatement! Isn't it MY wedding? Shouldn't I have there who I want? Btw, my fiance' feels more strongly about her not attending even more than I do. How do I let my brother know this without causing any issues?