shanna1979

Quote: Originally Posted by stefnicole So, after saying they would pay for it, they're going back on their word? It's not so much that they're going back on their word, it's just that they are not saying anything which I think is worse. I'm going to call them tomorrow and I'll keep everyone updated on what happens. Thanks for the advice.

Thanks Mandy, that sounds like a good idea. I just don't want to come across the wrong way and have our friendships ruined over a wedding.

Hi I'm new here and I am getting married on june 21, 2008. I have a little dilemma with 2 of my bridesmaids. About 6 months ago we ordered their dresses. They had to put 1/2 the deposit down ($80) and then they would have to pay the second half when the dresses came in. Well in March, one bridesmaid told me that she couldn't go because she found out she was pregnant. Then two weeks after that a second one told me that she had personal issues and couldn't go. Well, they both said that they would still pay for the dresses even though they weren't going. I sent out an email last week letting everyone know the dresses are here. Well, I haven't heard anything from those two. How should I approach them? I just can't afford to pay for their dresses on top of everything else. Any advice woiuld be greatly appreciated. Thanks Shanna

Thanks a lot!!

I'm new here. Just wanted to say hi. My name is Shanna and I am getting married on June 21, 2008. I was getting married at Beaches Negril but today I just changed it to Sunset at the Palms.