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  1. I used to be uncomfortable with my FI knowing my weight...he was always very open with his and kind of expected me to also be open with mine but I just couldn't tell him! I felt so ashamed beacuse when we met I was a size 6! We've been together for 5.5 years I gained 45 lbs and was a size 12!

     

    When we both decided to commit to a healthier lifestyle and try to lose the weight, he said the only way we will be able to do it is if we tracked our results so we could make our goals more tangible. Since I was getting desperate at this point to lose the weight, I agreed and finally told him my #. He didn't make fun of me or say I was disgusting...even though I knew he wouldn't, as he is so supportive:) but my weight has always been a touchy subject for me...

     

    Anyway, coming to terms with not being embarassed by my weight is what helped me lose 30lbs since November and am now a size 8! Over this time, we tracked our weight every two weeks and even do our measurements. He has been so supportive and won't let me beat myself up. Being honest with each other and getting our embarassments out of the way helped us to focus on our goal. I know for sure I'll be able to get back to a size 6, with his support :)

  2. Quote:
    Originally Posted by anna_c View Post
    1. It should probably take a couple of days to hear back for the confirmation.
    2. No deposits. The confirmation email is your formal confirmation, every once in a while just repeat the date and time as you communicate just so there's no misunderstandings. That's what I will do.
    3. No need to be in DR 3 days prior, you can get married straight off the plane but you should get there at least 2 days before the wedding because you will be meeting with your WC the day before, possibly in the morning, and they will send a note to your room the day before that meeting, or the day you get there if its before that.
    4. The WC performs the ceremony, since its symbolic it could be anyone you want. I'm having a symbolic ceremony as well and a good friend of ours is performing the ceremony.
    5. It all depends on where you live. Check with your local courthouse and ask how long it takes to receive your marriage license and plan accordingly.
    5. I asked Maritee a similar question...I may do a catholic wedding prior to going down and she said if the marriage certificate wasn't available that a copy of the Record of solemnization of marriage would be enough proof.
  3. Quote:
    Originally Posted by AshleyMichelle View Post
    I am starting on my 3rd week now! I think I will agree with the guy at the gym, at first they seemed really hard but I still could do them. Now its like only a few that I think are super hard. I think thats just because you start to really get into it and enjoy it and become better. I LOVE this so much and I have lost 7 pounds and feel so much better!
    WOW!!!! great work AshleyMichelle! great attitude! you're approaching your rest week, I bet you're relieved wink.gif you're right! after a while, some of the workouts grow on you :) my favourites are core synergistics, kenpo and shoulders and arms...my least favourite are probably plyometrics and legs and back....they just KILL my legs to the point that I can't even wear my heels to walk!

    I haven't been on track as I'd like in this second round of P90X but I figure I still have time since my wedding is in April 2010...those last 10lbs WILL go!!!
  4. Quote:
    Originally Posted by joshfrommontreal View Post
    I understand exactly what you mean now, I will ask when I am there on the 9th. I actually have never heard of this being an option, but it must be something they only offer in the summer months because the wind would probably make it impossible during the winter months.

    There are a couple things to consider with doing this, which I will ask for you.

    1. Since you aren't getting the open bar, how late will they let you be there?
    2. Do you care if the guests that are on the inside don't have the table set up like a wedding? If you don't mind then basically it would just be set up for a large reservation at the steakhouse.
    3. The price breakdown of doing this. For example - are they charging you so much per dinner and then a rental fee for the overall space?

    I am actually quite surprised that they let you use this space for dancing, cake cutting and a general party. Its surprising because it is so close to a bar. So I am going to ask for other couples if it would be possible to have the free dinner on the inside of the restaurant and then rent the private area for a couple hours for dancing and cake cutting. That way you can have an area for private dancing which is right next to a free bar.
    Hey Josh!
    Can you take some pictures of the area Anna_C is talking about?
    I am really interested to see what the dinner setup is like and where the dancing, cake cutting etc would take place...
  5. I would really be interested in knowing if there is etiquette for this!

     

    I sent my boarding pass save the dates 2 weeks ago and not many guests have visited our website...I'm thinking it's because they may be lazy and don't want to type out our website address or maybe they think it's so far in advance that they don't need to RSVP or maybe...they just don't like us sad.gif

     

    either way, I am concerened because I know of 4 other brides getting married in the same week at the Majestic Colonial and I'm worried there won't be enough rooms if the other brides have families and friends who aren't fence sitters! soooo frustrating!

  6. Hey Jily!

    welcome!

    I've been to the Gran Bahia Principe in Riviera Maya twice now (stayed at Akumal) and I LOVE this resort for a vacation...but I'm not sure about a wedding...when I checked out packages for our wedding it seemed they really nickle and dimed you for EVERYTHING and I felt some other resorts offered more for what you're paying...

     

    In terms of your criteria, here's my opinions:

     

    Pricing max $2500, but ideally around $1800 all in

    - definitely think this is doable!

    Can't be Adults Only

    - kids club/activities looked super fun on the Tulum resort

    Must have a disco

    - yep, they have one but I've heard of ther brides booking it and then the disco was "closed" or not available

    Willing to pay extra for wedding package

    - would definitely have to do this!

    Food is very important

    - AMAZING buffets and A LOT of food choices...their International Gourmet restaurants are fantastic BUT are not available for the wedding dinner sad.gif

    Looking for a semi-private wedding (ie. no speedo-clad observers @ ceremony)

    - the area on the beach in the Akumal section was relatively secluded...I didn't see very many lurkers in the background but the loaction was very windy both times we saw it (February, and end of March). The Tulum location has a beautiful gazebo and is on a hill overlooking the beach...I would choose this location for sure!

    Looking for 4 or 5 Star

    - I'd say this is a 4.5

    Want a fun reception with music, dancing, food, etc. Would like it fairly private

    - doable, we discussed many options with the WC.

     

    GOOD LUCK and happy planning! :)

  7. Thanks JCrosby!!!

    I'll feel like a million bucks once I hit my goal :)

     

    AshleyMichelle - I did the P90X classic mainly because my fitness level when I began was so low ie I had pretty much no muscle base...one thing I learned (and it may be obvious) was that only doing cardio will not help you shed the fat, you really need to change the composition of your body and build a muscle base so when you do cardio, you are able to burn more calories! yay!

     

    In terms of eating lots of fruits and vegetables...if you look at the P90X portion approach in the Fat Shredder eating plan, it suggests only having 1 fruit portion a day...I was really surprised about this too! fruits are great but do have a lot of sugar in them...

     

    anyway good luck, it's great you are seeing results!!!!

  8. Hi All!

     

    P90X is AMAZING! I am currently in my first week of my second round of P90X!

    My fiancee and I started our first round in November of 2008 and finished in February 2009. It was hard staying committed not only to the work out but also eating the P90X Fat Shredder way...and definitely difficult staying on track during Christmas holiday was SUPER tough but it was SO worth it.

     

    When I startred, my fitness level was poor, taking 4 flights of stairs at work left me out of breath consistently...

     

    I am 5"3 and my start weight was 165 lbs!!! After finishing the program in February I was 142lbs. Between February and now I have just been doing cardio workouts 3 times a week and sticking to the P90X energy booster diet and am down to 135 lbs!

     

    My fiancee has had similar results! The best part of P90X was doing it with the fiancee and growing and changing together (as corny as that sounds). It was definitely easier having his support.

     

    We are doing it again, as I try to shed my last 10 lbs before my wedding in APril 2010.

     

    Best of luck to ANY ladies doing this program.

    If anyone needs any tips, let me know!!!

     

    Jess

  9. Quote:
    Originally Posted by TA Maureen View Post
    I'm in South Jersey near Philly and I have rates for April 2010 if you need help for your friend feel free to email me. Actually I have rates for the resort for the end of April. Airfare will be published in the next few weeks so I can give resort rates but package rates will take a few weeks.
    Hi Maureen,
    thanks so much!
    I sent you an email :)
  10. Hi Veronica,

    sorry to hear about your frustrations with Sandra!

    Every time I have emailed Maritee, she has gotten back to me pretty fast...but I am in the preliminary stages of planning so my questions are pretty easy for now...

     

    when are you getting married in APril 2010? My date is confirmed for April 22nd at 3pm.

    DO you have a photographer booked yet?

    I am looking to share travel costs...

     

    good luck with your planning :)

    jess

  11. March 2009

    Marisa & Don: March 10, 2009 - EdenH Real Arena

    Sita & Fernando: March 14, 2009 - Riu Bachata

    Carmen & Donovan: March 19, 2009 - EdenH Real Arena

    Nuc Med Bride & FI: March 19, 2009 - Gran Bahia Principe

     

    April 2009

    Mamie & Joshua: April 2, 2009 - Bavaro Princess

    Kim & Chris: April 4, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Raquel & Dominick: April 17, 2009 - Paradisus Punta Cana

    Jennifer & Eliu: April 18, 2009 - Paradisus Palma Real

    Nancy & Kenny: April 23, 2009 - Majestic Colonial Punta Cana

    Brittany and Jay: April 23, 2009 (I think) - Occidental Grand

    Michelle & Jeff: April 24, 2009 - Meliá Caribe Tropical

    DRBride2009: April 24, 2009 - Meliá Caribe Tropical

    Aliya & Joey: April 24, 2009 - Riu Palace, Punta Cana

    Shannon & Dave: April 30, 2009 - Melia Caribe Tropical

    Christi88 & FI: April 30, 2009 - Eden Real

     

    May 2009

    Shawn & Jeremy: May 2009 - Punta Cana (Still deciding on resort)

    Nicole & Justin: May 1, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Yadira & Alexander: May 2, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Eliu & Jennifer, MAY 3, 2009 - Paradisus Palma Real

    Velvet & James: May 8, 2009 - Riu Palace Punta Cana

    jhildebr: May 11, 2009 - Majestic Elegance

    Jennifer & Adam: May 11, 2009 - Paradisus Punta Cana

    Karen & Anthony: May 12 2009 - Ocean Sand Punta Cana

    Meagan & Jeff: May 15, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Nichole & John: May 16, 2009- Melia Caribe Tropical

    Jessica & Omar: May 22, 2009 - Paradisus Punta Cana

    Kristen & Craig: May 22, 2009 - Paradisus Punta Cana

    Heather & Joe: May 23, 2009 - EdenH Real Arena

    Sam & Sarah: May 27, 2009 - Majestic Colonial

     

     

    June 2009

    melnb & FI: June 2009 - Paradisius

    FYB87 & FI: June 2009 - Resort undecided

    Vanessa & Hugo: June 19, 2009 - Paradisus Palma Real

    Mark and Jessica: June 19, 2009--Dreams Punta Cana

    Amanda and Tony: June 19, 2009-- Dreams Punta Cana

    Katy & Will: June 20, 2009 - Occidental Grand

    Rosanne & Alex: June 24, 2009- Dreams Punta Cana

    Sue & Steve: June 30th, 2009 - Riu Palace Punta Cana

     

    July 2009

    Kylie & Chris: July 1, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Amber & Seth: July 2, 2009 - Excellence Punta Cana

    Nadia & Julian: July 3, 2009 - Excellence Punta Cana

    Lori & Justin: July 8, 2009 - Melia Caribe Tropical

    Jess & Dan: July 27, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana :)

    Jenn & Chris: July 31, 2009 - Riu Palace, Punta Cana

    Cecile & Nord: July 24,2009-Moon Palace, Punta Cana

     

    August 2009

    Shannon & Rich: August 5, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Ana & Adam: August 15, 2009 - Iberostar Punta Cana

     

    September 2009

    Clare & Ross: September 7, 2009 - Ocean Blue (date to be confirmed)

    Chris & Martin: September 9, 2009 - Ocean Blue (date to be confirmed)

    Kenya & Eddie Sept. 12, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Kim & Jason September 18, 2009 - Dreams Palm Beach

    Kristy & Vince: September 19, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

     

    October 2009

    Carmen & Tiny: October 09, 2009 - Catalonia Bavaro Beach, Punta Cana

    Jeannie & Jorge: October 10, 2009 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Jen & Dave: October 10, 2009 - Majestic Colonial Punta Cana

    Darcy & Dave: October 11, 2009- Melia Caribe Tropical- Punta Cana

    Angela & Jason: October 20, 2009 - Majestic Colonial Punta Cana

    Kelly & Pablo: October 22, 2009 - Majestic Colonial, Punta Cana

    Jenny & Matthew: October 27, 2009 - Melia Caribe Tropical

    c & d: October 27, 2009 - Majestic Colonial, Punta Cana

     

    November 2009

    Veronica & Paul: November 5, 2009 - Majestic Colonial Punta Cana

    Lisa & Jim: November 5, 2009 - EdenH Real Arena Punta Cana

    Leslie & Gerry: November 16, 2009- Majestic Colonial

    Andrea & Chris: November 24, 2009, Majestic Elegance

    Krista & Dave: November 25, 2009 - Sirenis Tropical

     

    December 2009

    Julie and Rob: December 4, 2009 - Grand Palladium Punta Cana

    Amber and Dan: December 5, 2009 - Majestic Colonial

    Beth and Ian: December 12, 2009- Excellence Punta Cana

    Lindsay and Tracy: December 31, 2009 - Majestic Colonial

     

    January 2010

    Nicole & Michael: January 23, 2010 - Bavaro Princess

    Shelby & Michael: January 23, 2010 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Jocelyn & Michael: January 25, 2010 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Lisa & Adam: January 2010, Dreams Punta Cana

    Nicole & Chad: January 13, 2010 - Dreams Punta Cana

     

    February 2010

    Amber & John: February 27, 2010, Paradisus Palma Real

     

    March 2010

    Jennifer & Cory March 13 2010- Palma Real Punta Cana

     

    April 2010

    Jess & Aaron April 22, 2010 - Majestic Colonial Punta Cana

    Erin & Jeremy April 28, 2010 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Amanda & Craig April 28*, 2010 - Grand Palladium Punta Cana

     

    May 2010

    Jennnifer & Trevor May 11th 2010 - Majestic Colonial

    Rosa & Larry May 15th, 2010 - Excellence Punta Cana

    mary & joey may 21st, 2010- dreams punta cana :)

    Sara & Adam May 22nd, 2010 - Indecided, Punta Cana (Palladium, Dreams, Iberostar or Excellence)

     

     

    July 2010

    Lynette and Darnel July 13, 2010 - Dreams Punta Cana

    Liz & Miguel - July 26, 2010 - Undecided location {Santiago, Puerto Plata, or Punta Cana

  12. Hi everyone,

     

    My name is Jess and I'm getting married in April-May 2010 - we haven't chosen a date yet as I just got engaged 3 weeks ago!

     

    I have been reading all of the community posts on different wedding locations and am SO GLAD I found this site - everyone's posts and opinions are proving to be super helpful already.

     

    In terms of locations, we have only been to the Riviera Maya twice and both times stayed at the Gran Bahia Principe - however, in terms of a wedding location we are open to other areas of the Carribean and are looking for something similar to the GBP or better. Preferably, closer to the airport since we will have a good number of young children joining us and GPB is about 2 hour drive.

     

    Anyway, congrats to all the other new brides to be :)

     

    Jess

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