Hi Hannah,
I'm a 5/31/14 dreams bride, wedding is coming up soon! I have the Ultimate package too, we decided not to do too many decorations so we didn't have to bring so much. I decided on very colorful flowers instead.
We are getting a dance floor because it's easier to dance on, but we like the effect, you definitely don't need one otherwise.
We are doing a bonfire party, and it's costly but we figured it's a good way for all of our friend to meet prior to the ceremony (we are having 70 guests).
We aren't doing any favors, but instead a candy buffet. We got some really cute personalized candy bags.
Happy Planning - it goes fast!