I am also having a shower. Even though we have been living together for a couple years it is a way for people to still feel involved in your wedding even though they may not make the trip to the destination. We did register at Target and Bed Bath and Beyond, although the honeyfund does sound like a good idea!! One of the things someone said to me when I was thinking about not registering is that you may have most of the things that you have a registry but will those last the next 15 years?