ChipmunkRN- I went through the same thing! I really liked two but had that "emotional bride moment" with one of them. I went to a couple more stores and couldn't find anything so, I went back to try on those same two dresses and had that same reaction to the one dress...the other one just didn't do it for me anymore. I would definitely go back and try them both on by yourself and see how you feel. Im sure whatever you find you will look stunning in.