Congratulations on your engagement. I didn't choose a hotel, rather a Villa in Montego Bay. A few things to keep in mind regarding any of the hotels. Hotels book as many events as possible on any given day. While the ceremony may be booked at the Arch on the Beach for 1-hour, bride #2's party may be hanging around while you say your "I do's". Take a look at some of the candid photos on line of beach resort weddings and notice the tourists in the background complete with shorts and flip flops. Every bride has a photogapher, party, family, friends, etc. in tow, you get the picture. There is no guaranteed privacy at any hotel as there may be up to 10 weddings per day. Ask how far in advance you can work with your hotel desginated Planner, it may only be 30 or 60 days. If you select outside ask what your backup location is in advance in case it rains. Ask about all the extras that are not covered in the package the hotel is offering. Ask questions here, I found the thread full of Bride's willing to share. Best of luck.