Hey Canadiangirl, I see you've done a ton of research for your wedding! good to know that there is someone like you to help other brides! I'm also getting married and was planning to book the Grand Palladium but on the Jamaica side for April 27-May4th, 2012 week. I got really scared when I started reading some of the recent reviews on tripadvisor in regards to the poor airconditioning in the rooms and that would be bad for my guests. In terms of pictures of Poseidan, I did manage to find one, see the link below: http://www.oyster.com/jamaica/hotels/grand-palladium-jamaica-resort-and-spa/photos/restaurants-bars-grand-palladium-jamaica-resort-and-spa-v85408/ I think blue lagoon is the way to go as well. I too didn't think it was an option to have other guests of the hotel in on the wedding reception so that means I had to strike out Iberostar cause in that hotel you need a minimum of 40 guests before you can book a private reception. By the way, do you know if the wedding ceremonies are quite private or are there usually other hotel guests looking on? thanks a bunch!