Well i had it all in my mind already acording to the fotos that she had sent me that was included in the pacakage that i picked wich was susnhine,and had told her that in emails. But the real thing is she only rights down everthing you want once you get there. when i got there i had i letter on top of my bed, to meet her that same day in the reception at 7pm wich was fantastic. i got there , she asked me for the documents all translated and legalized she saw if everything was ok and we proceeded with the flowers, she show me the pics of the flowers included wich i had already seen and i picked white roses for the center and bouquet,i picked silver lace for the chairs and a gold lace for the cake, she will ask you what music will you like for your entrance i piked Juan Luis Guerra a Dominican singer. and for our first dance i brought a cd with the music i wanted Adele ''one and only''. she will ask you where do you want to have your first dance, i picked in the gazebo right after the wedding. for the cake she will also show you fotos i had a tree layed cake decorated with shells and my toppers i brought monograms. i also brought for the bouquet a monogram and little diamonds for the center of the roses there was no problem with that. than the wedding dinner she will show you the restaraunts that you can pick with there menus i picked ''Don Pablo'' i am not sure but i think you can not shut down the restaurant for your wedding , i was very lucky when we got there , it only had a cuple and they were finishing and then nobody else came in just us. i think it is possible for you create your own ceremony, i didn't think it was necessary beacause it only lasts like 20min , i did the sand ceremony and forgot the paper but the WC had the sand ceremony so i read it and it was perfect. and it was the judge that also read it, in our wedding but you can ask a member of your familiy to read it . if you have anymore questions ............