Hi Nia & Shari-Ann! Thank you so much for your advice! I'm starting to realize that maybe a large group isn't the best idea. I think the only way GVV NV will happen is if we cut down the list. And I'm figuring out that although a lot of our friends/family say they want to come....they might not be able to when its time (I understand life happens, a lot of people have kids, houses, etc). Wow, I always dreamed of a destination wedding but I didn't realize how picky I would be when it came to picking the resort! Aaaahhh, I'm learning a lot about myself through this process. We're planning on a 2012 wedding so I know I still have plenty of time, but I at least want to have the resort figured out. Are you guys planning on having a cocktail hour and a sit-down dinner reception? I'm so thankful for this website! I don't know what I would do without it . ~Tara