hi ladies! I leave in just 5 more weeks! I cant believe it so close now! Brides getting married soon and past brides who are having/had a legal ceremony....how was the ceremony? is there something specific they have that someone could post or forward to me, ulochiel@gmail.com. Are we allowed to add to the ceremony. and I see alot of people do the sand ceremony but I hadn't planned on doing this, will my ceremony be too short if i dont add this in?? thanks for any help, im really stressing out with only 5 weeks left!!!!