Ok, this might be long...
My fiance's family is constantly a sore subject between the two of us. I feel as though we shouldn't invite his older brother Devan to our wedding. We found out that we were pregnant a few months back and his brother proceeded to say horrible things to my fiance about me and about our twins. Things like we should get an abortion, that they probably weren't his, that he is settling for someone beneath him. He made it quite clear that he doesn't approve of me, nor is he willing to get to know me.
I'm worried that if invited and granted he shows up that he will cause a scene or even say something ot my family. I don't get along with his sister. I have a myspace and I generally don't pay attention to it but she goes over and has read every single thing on my page and has tried to use it against me to her brother...uhhh, childish. Also, she constantly talks to my family members and friends via the net, trying to find dirt on me so her brother will leave me.
She also isn't accepting of the fact that we're having children together. I mean, when Kaid told her she worked it out all in her head and tried to convince him that they weren't his. I feel selfish for thinking this...but I mean, if you do it right you're only supposed to get married once and I just want it to be perfect. What do I do? Is it appropriate to not invite them? Do I just have to grin and bear it? ((sigh))