| Originally Posted by yboone98 |
I decided to breakdown & tell my mom & FI how I'm feeling via a 3 way phone conversation. Their bottom line: FORGET WHO CAN'T MAKE IT. My FI said that as long as he & I are there, along with our parents, no one else matters.
Do you know that 7 months after my wedding 2 of them haven't spoken to us at all? Two people who rsvp'd with a yes haven't called us to find out if we made it back and how it went, let alone explain why they didn't make it to Mexico.
This is a golden opportunity to filter out those who have your back from those who don't. I promise you that these no-shows won't cross your mind when you're at your dream wedding. It really is their loss and you may just eliminate some excess relationships that aren't as true as you thought they were. Sad to say it, but that is the bright side to all this. It was for us.
I'm sorry you are down, it will pass though. Best wishes )