My bro might not come
Posted 14 December 2007 - 05:39 PM
Now I don't have kids, so I might have no reason to be upset. But I don't see why he can't just come for three days so he can see me and get married. I really want my brother to come so he can be a part of my wedding ceremony and be in my wedding pictures. I'm trying not to get upset, until he tells me he definately won't be coming...but i've already had a couple of crying sessions over it. Would never tell him that though. I think i'm just being a baby.
Posted 14 December 2007 - 05:48 PM
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Posted 14 December 2007 - 06:19 PM
my feelings are that it's either
-she's jealous she can't go and that's why she wants your bro to stay
-she's underestimating her ability to take care of a 4-5 month old baby on her own
-she's just a brat
i hope something can be worked out. i'm sure she'll come around (unless she's just that type of girl, or you don't get along with her normally then i don't see why eventually she won't realize your bro should be there).
Posted 14 December 2007 - 06:25 PM
Maybe you can approach your brother and say something along the lines of this. <<Playing stupid>> "Is everything ok with you and your girlfriend? I'm just concerned because you say you're not coming to the wedding because she's pregnant. But she's having the baby 5 months before. Is something else going on"
Posted 14 December 2007 - 06:33 PM
As for the sister, is it her first child? I bet she is just freaking out a little about having a child alone. Personally, I would be scared too, but it wouldn't take me long to call my mom or sister to come stay with me. Plus the baby will be 5 months old! I think at some point during those 5 months, she would be alone with the baby. You would think she would figure it out.
It'll work out. Just give it some time. The people who are important to you will figure a way to make it work.
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