Freaking out....just a bit.....
Posted 02 December 2007 - 08:48 AM
Posted 02 December 2007 - 11:56 AM
Thanks again for all of your support ladies, I'm sorry for not responding earlier. Hope all is well with you girls!!
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Posted 02 December 2007 - 01:17 PM
You and FI will figure it out. You need to do what's right for you guys, but you don't have to make any decisions now. Take a few days, let it sink in, try to relax. Sometimes things don't happen when or how we want them to, but that doesn't mean they are bad. Whatever you decide, we will be here and support you in your decision. If you need to talk, just let me know.
Posted 02 December 2007 - 01:30 PM
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Posted 02 December 2007 - 02:13 PM
That being said, you need to sit down and talk to your FI about what the right thing for the two of you is. Take into consideration financial, career, education, emotional... all the factors in your life right now. You may decide you do want this and can do it, or you may decide you can't and that's ok too. Just don't feel pressured either way, go with your heart.
I don't mention this much, because it was such a different point in my life, but I have had two abortions. One when I was a teenager and one actually when Brian and I first started dating (while on BC!). It's not an easy route to take or any easy thing to decide, but if you ever need any support on that I'm here for you.
Posted 02 December 2007 - 02:16 PM
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Posted 02 December 2007 - 02:48 PM
Posted 02 December 2007 - 03:06 PM
Im so sorry this is not the news that you wanted to hear. Like others said no one is hear to judge you, we are all hear no matter what route you take. In no way are you being selfish AT ALL. In fact you are looking out what best for the child and only a selfless person would do this. Everything will work out in the end, and whatever you need you know we are all here for you.
Posted 02 December 2007 - 03:52 PM
I got pregnant when I was 22 and steve and I weren't even together anymore, so I know how you're feeling right now, I think I cried for a week straight and I had no idea what to do. And I also never knew if I really wanted to have kids. Ultimately I had to decide what was best for me and I chose to have hailey and it was the best decision I ever made and now 9 years later Steve & I are married, so I'm a firm believer in everything happens for a reason.
I'm here if you need to talk, I understand all to well what you're going through.
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