I have no words. I can't even fathom ever sending a bill to someone who didn't show up to my wedding.
This is grounds for 'friends off' IMO, but I guess a bride and groom sending a bill would imply they want 'friends off' anyways because that's no way to act. It doesn't really even say if they spoke to eachother before the bill was sent -- who knows, something terrible could have happened. Have some compassion before you get angry you paid for an extra plate.
I pick my friendships over $75.
Some of the comments on the post on FB actually are in favor of this. One stated they could have atleast called or texted the bride/groom to say they weren't coming. What couple on their wedding day needs that stress or has time for that? Even if you did try, they may not even see the text or hear the phone ring. A follow up call a day or two later is appropriate IMO.
Edited by calgarybride2015, 01 October 2015 - 12:32 PM.