So I don't think i'm alone here, but lately i've felt so frustrated with some aspects of the planning stages and i'm really hoping that it will get better from here.
My guests have had three months to deposit ($50 per person) and we're in the last two weeks of deposits now. I feel like my Fiance hasn't really been holding up his end of the efforts by reaching out to his side of the guest list and reiterating the deposit due date.
I have been reminding my family and friends and so far it's all my side that has booked.. No one on his side has put their deposit down yet, but i've gotten RSVP from 90% of the friends/family on his side who have RSVP'd "YES".
My entire side of the bridal party has already put their deposit down, but not one of his friends have and I think it's the most disrespectful thing ever (maybe i'm being unreasonable, but I really don't think so). I feel like the bridal party should be some of the first people to put their deposit down. At this point it's caused a few arguements between my FI and I and i've just been a bit miserable the past few days.
I'm so annoyed right now and I really don't know how to calm my nerves about all of this.. i'd be much happier if I knew that some of his friends were for sure coming. I will be so hurt for him if they don't. I've even told them that I need them to put their deposits down so that I can purchase their attire.. still nothing. I feel so disrespected right now.
Edited by perianjay, 19 March 2015 - 07:30 AM.