So girls I wanted and needed some advice on this topic. My fiancé has been great with the planning all along. Basically because he was saying "just get whatever you think." Ok will do. Well there was disagreements over the photography (too much and a pain in the ass) is his opinion. He didn't want to get favors or anything to give anybody cause he said he has never seen that at a wedding before. Keep in mind he is a man and doesn't pay attention to those details at a wedding.
Anyway I have my girls gifts bought and at the beginning he was saying he wanted to buy guys watches. He said probably a budget of $120 per guy. SO I went ahead and did this for my girls. Just so it's equal and fair. So now he says "awwww I don't think I am getting guys watches now." He said "maybe I will just tell them I will get them something after the wedding." Like what???? Then I said (just in case he didn't want to go shop for them). "OK hun I will go out and get their watches." He said "No, I don't want you buying my guys their gifts. I asked them to stand and I don't want you spending money on them." So hello he isn't either. He said he is waiting until after the wedding.
How do I get around this. He will not be happy if I walks into the door with watches for the guys knowing I bought them. Then he won't go buy them himself because he says "they won't expect anything anyway." I said "ahhhh yes they will especially if they find out the girls have something." I told him it just isn't right and it's not right. He just don't get it at all.