That's a great idea- pool day the day after the wedding. We have the same issue where people will be arriving on different days as well and some will be staying for different durations.
We are putting together a week program and probably going to include some activities that people can do so that we all do hangout at least once outside of the wedding. Our wedding is on a Saturday and we were thinking of doing a Tulum day trip for those who are interested.
We were also thinking of doing a pool day either the day before the wedding or day after.
I think that we have to trust in our friends in and family that they will be understanding and that our bridal party will help with making everyone feel part of the group as well. We have already asked that our bridal party make small talk with our guests if they run into them and just check up on people if they happen to see them. It's the little things that make a group really gel!
that's a great idea! I also like the idea of everyone hanging out together at the pool or beach one day. I know some of our guests are making a huge financial effort to come down, which means they won't be able to do many excursions but this way we all get to catch up and it's free (or rather, already paid for haha)
The fiance and I wanted to plan a half-day boat trip but when I run it by my friends a lot were scared of getting sick so I don't know what's going to happen with that.
I also know Juan should probably plan a day to spend with his mom and sister, whom he hasn't seen in 4 years. I'm excited to see them reunited