@vancouverpetunia Thanks!! I'm hoping that they work for larger busts. I'm about the same size as you and I need something for a bit of extra support, so i'm hoping these will help. Going to try them for sure.
Well the 'friend' that I told you ladies about.. the one who was supposed to be my MOH, decided to send me a short email last night with not much detail and told me that she would no longer be attending the wedding, nor does she see a reason for this friendship to continue. I can think of many reasons why she did this #1 being that I had my wedding regardless of her original plan to possibly beat me to the altar? I'm starting to believe that this is one of the biggest reasons.
When I told my other girls they all came forward and told me that they never liked her, always had a bad feeling about her etc etc.
It seems that I was the blind one in the situation because even though I could always tell that she had a bit of wedding envy, I just carried on and let it go. She did a decent job hiding it until the end. For me that's when the timeline added up. Everything was fine before that, but as soon as Chester and I had our legal wedding everything with my MOH started falling to pieces. I suddenly found out that she was "no longer having a bridal party".. she didn't invite me to her dress appointment and she started downplaying her whole wedding and not including me.
Well.. I guess this is for the best. As much as it hurt yesterday and came as a surprise, I guess I needed this because I definitely didn't want to look back on this day and wish that she wasn't beside me in all of my pictures, videos etc.
I've already replaced her spot with one of my friends who has been here for me throughout this entire process, never expecting anything in return, acting like a bridesmaid without the title. She is honestly such a sweetheart and I wanted her up beside me and my other girls on my special day. I asked her if she would and she said she would be honoured. She has also kind of been here with me through all of this drama with my MOH and she has been nothing but a sweet, supportive and positive friend in my life.
I wanted to carry this wedding on and not have anymore negativity affiliated with it and i'm hoping now that one of the most negative forces in this whole wedding is gone, everything will be smooth sailing from here.
My other girls aren't particularly happy about how my MOH just left one week before my bachelorette that she had apparently "half assed planned" and she dropped it and left it with my other girls who now have to pick up the pieces and try to figure out the plans. Let's also mention that she didn't contribute anything to it either, so my girls are also left with her 'tab'.
WHAT A SUCKY PERSON?!
I think this is the end of my rant, but I wanted to update you ladies since you had been following my story on here.
Positivity moving forward and I have every reason to smile.. i'm going to paradise with closest family and friends and getting married to the man of my dreams.
Edited by perianjay, 17 September 2015 - 04:33 AM.