How To I Handle This Friend Situation

[jeffandrobyn]

Eh, we fight like sisters so I didn't take use of that word to the level that I should've, in the moment but I let her have it after that. There is no reason to ever call someone that, I don't care what the circumstance is. It's disgusting. It gets me angrier the more I think about it.

 

She knows that her 'free' room is being released from my room block in the next few days. I only gave it to her because I love her and didn't want her staying in some disgusting, rat-infested hotel elsewhere because I know that's all she could afford. 

 

When she tells me she booked her ticket, I'm probably going to tell her then that she's going to have to book her own accommodations, that I was happy to help her out but after the language she's used I don't feel comfortable doing so anymore. 

[nadiakat17]

Depending on how you're feeling in a few days I would prob give her a heads up before you release the room since she may not decide to come thus not wasting money on a flight. But that was horrid of her to say so maybe she had it coming.

[acw271011]

Ouch. I hate that word too. It really is disgusting. lol My hubby used it for the first time ever last weekend. I've never, ever heard him say it and he was referring to some wacky broad not paying attention while she was driving and almost hit us! lol But I was so stunned I hit him!!! lmao Not hard of course, just in the arm. But I told him I didn't care what the circumstance was that I never, ever wanted to hear him use that word every again! lol Sorry - it isn't funny but I'm laughing as I'm typing this! I agree - it's the most vulgar word out there.

[jeffandrobyn]

@@nadiakat17

 

They know that if they don't give a deposit (because I want to cover my butt in case the loser bf doesn't come) within the next few days then the room is getting released. Last night she texted me to confirm the deposit amount and I just answered coldly and didn't say anything else. Her ticket is almost entirely on miles - she needed $75 to cover the difference. I haven't given her the money - now out of principal - and she can't do anything as far as arrange transportation until she comes up with that cash. FI was livid. He's like 'so now we're actually paying her to come to our wedding?' I think if we didn't know she was paying for someone else's shower, buying BM dress and all then it wouldn't be quite as much of an issue.