I want to do a sand ceremony for our wedding, but I don't want to use craft sand. Rather, my plan is to have each of us scoop sand from where we are standing and pour that in to the jar.
I kind of thought it would be cool to have a smaller scoop and ask all of our friends and family who are attending to scoop a little sand from where they are at when we said our vows and say something about how it means a lot to us to have them there, as they have influenced us as individuals and as a couple and are very much a part of the day.
While I really like the sentiment of that, I don't know how practical it is and how we'd do it logistically with 40 guests.
Should I scrap involving the guests, or leave it? If I leave it...how do we do it smoothly?