I have the same conflict - having lost my mom recently I'd love to have a wedding photo of her on display, but my dad is remarried. I like my stepmom and all, but I'd like to think she would understand. Maybe I'll see if a family member has a photo of her from their wedding that my dad isn't in - I think that would be less offensive to her.
Also, sorry you lost your mom Planning a wedding knowing she won't be there is hard...
I also really wanted to have a photo from my mom & dad's wedding at my reception, as my mom passed away 10 years ago. but... my dad is remarried, as are my fiance's parents and it's like hmmm... do you post a pictures from each of their weddings? hehe, just wasn't sure if that was awkward so we won't do it at all.
Edited by beckys98, 24 September 2014 - 10:25 AM.