I spoke with my mom this morning and she says it's normal but I am feeling like the biggest piece of crap right now. We got into a "discussion" about the wedding costs yesterday. He is upset that it's cost this much and says he would of been happier just going to a justice of the peace and that this is "MY" wedding not his.
We were going to get married at the Bahia Principe but as we didn't like the limitations they had for hours and what not, we went off the resort. Of course we went over budget, everyone does unless you are penny pitching. and now he is upset that it's cost us 21000 for the wedding (including our trip down there for 2 weeks in there)
I budgeted what it would of cost for the Bahia and it would of cost us $17,335.00 when all was said and done for everything we wanted to do. (sit down dinner he wanted, there was no budging on that, hair and makeup.. groomsmen outfits here at home, favors included in that etc). So honestly, only 3000 cheaper for less time (ceremony & 6-11:00 reception, whereas off site we have the place from 4 pm till 2:00 am.. 5 hours versus 10 hours)
Everything we have done for the wedding (bubba kegs for guests, décor) we have discussed.
I just don't get it. He has all the opportunity to bring up how he feels regarding this and now he is making me feel like the biggest piece in the world. AND it's not like he is paying for it all. when all is said and done, he will have put 11,000 into it and I would of put 10,000.
Anyone having issues or arguments with their spouse? I feel like I am alone on this.