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#61 beckys98

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Posted 20 January 2015 - 04:10 PM

Haha! I had to laugh at your "bum" comment. I'm the exact same way - bigger in the backside and my fiance loves it. I DID end up with a dress that I love that very much accentuates my booty, but I'm still not sure he'll like it! He is very particular about "fashion" so it is a complete gamble with him!

 

 

@MissJen3 I do the same. I have it at home because my fiance and i don't live together yet :) so sometimes I'll try it on again and all my doubts are gone. Another thing that helped is that every time I see a dress online and I'm like, "oh i love that one", it looks like mine hahha. 

 

The only thing that bummed me out the other day, my fiance was trying to get me to tell him what the dress looked like (he's so impatient he doesn't like surprises haha) and I wouldn't budge but I asked him what he thought it looked like. He said, "well I don't think it will be puffy, think it's going to be tight and with little sleeves". HA! nothing like my dress. I know that he wanted something tight on me because I have a pretty big bum and he likes it hahah but I tried on mermaid dresses and I liked them, but I didn't love them. I liked them more for the fact that I knew he was going to love it, rather than me loving them (if that makes any sense at all). Now I know that I love the dress, but I hope he does too :(



#62 MillerK

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Posted 23 January 2015 - 01:58 AM

You made the right choice at one point of time you loved the dress and these secondary thoughts keeps coming, so do not think so much. One of my friend was also baceme tensed with same thoughts and when the day arrived she looked beautiful and flattering as well :) ..Best Wishes!



#63 Wrathwitch

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Posted 04 February 2015 - 08:59 AM

I think that for me, this is the first time in my life that I will be using control top panty.....sigh. I really need to get off my arse and go to the gym more in the future, it's too late now since its 7 days til the wedding, but at least the undies will help!!!



#64 TinkerSofi

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Posted 04 February 2015 - 12:13 PM

I think that for me, this is the first time in my life that I will be using control top panty.....sigh. I really need to get off my arse and go to the gym more in the future, it's too late now since its 7 days til the wedding, but at least the undies will help!!!

you will look beautiful to your future hubby so don't sweat it. For me I know I'm putting all this pressure on myself because I want to look good on photos but my fiance keeps telling me that I look good and that I don't need to worry. We are honestly our own worst critics. 

 

He fell in love with you just the way you are ;)



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#65 Msmimi

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    Posted 04 February 2015 - 03:22 PM

    Funny!



    #66 calgarybride2015

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    Posted 04 February 2015 - 04:45 PM

    you will look beautiful to your future hubby so don't sweat it. For me I know I'm putting all this pressure on myself because I want to look good on photos but my fiance keeps telling me that I look good and that I don't need to worry. We are honestly our own worst critics. 

     

    He fell in love with you just the way you are ;)

     

    We are our own worst critics... I was very nervous before our engagement shots and I was for nothing!!!  

    And trust me, you could walk about in a paper bag and your fiance will be fighting back tears!


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    #67 pjay

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    Posted 07 February 2015 - 10:04 AM

    I always think 'what if' about other dresses, but I also love my dress and knew it was the one.

    If I could have purchased multiple dresses, I totally would have because i'd love to be able to wear a few different styles.

    I ended up with a timeless choice - Lace mermaid gown with an illusion back. It's a stunning dress and it embodies everything that I want to be on the day of my wedding.


     

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    #68 malyna

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    Posted 08 February 2015 - 08:06 PM

    Definitely thinking I maybe shouldn't have gotten the dress I got ugh


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    #69 calgarybride2015

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    Posted 08 February 2015 - 08:10 PM

    Definitely thinking I maybe shouldn't have gotten the dress I got ugh


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    Why? You took your time to decide... Maybe put it on to remind yourself why you fell in love with it? I had to do that a few times.


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    #70 TinkerSofi

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    Posted 09 February 2015 - 07:37 AM

    @malyna I had to do the same as @calgarybride2015. The other day we went bridesmaid dress shopping and I was like "no, must not look at any more wedding dresses!" haha, otherwise the doubt always comes in your mind as to whether you could have found something better and I think it's normal for everyone. Honestly I love mine and when I put it on I have no doubts at all. If you try it on and it still doesn't give you that feeling of "holy crap I look good!" then maybe consider changing it. As my fiance says, you could always find something better if you look for long enough, but are you happy with the decision you made? 

     

    My biggest regret is not trying on more dresses haha, but i've always been like that, I find what I like right away. I know some girls who literally tried on hundreds of dresses and became more undecided with each one. 



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