@Sabes44 very good that you got a good option for the room and the most important thing is that you love it and will enjoy all the benefits. my resort offers room upgrade but they do not sat yet anything, base on "availability"
ceremony: comes with 24 free chairs after that $15 each
free cocktail for up to 40 after that $10 each
if 15 rooms are booked, free up to 40 people $10 after that
semi private dinner: free up to 40, $25 after that.
I think that what makes me upset is that the resort tries to nickel and dime you when you are bringing thousands of dollars in business, and what is horrible about my resort is the outrageous vendor fee...I recommend to anyone to look at the vendors that your resort offers because if you dont like that ...it comes to two options: use who you dont want OR pay what you dont want and bring who you want...that drives me crazy.
That was one reason why I chose my resort, because their packages had pretty much everything I wanted and wouldn't have to add much extras. Their outside vendor fee is $500 which is a bit steep, so I will probably end up using their photographer. Since we are doing our legal ceremony here the weekend before and have a photographer in the group, I think we will have plenty of pictures to choose from.