Wow! You really do have a great planner! You are so good...planning early! I began one year from my wedding date. It all seems to be working out nicely though.
I had gone to a few bridal & trunk shows in the beginning. You are right. Most of the resources there are not for a DW. Good freebies though.
You have to comment on any & everything to get your postings up to 150. (Just type thanks or congrats...)Then you'll be able to see photos and templates. People have some good ideas on here that may help you in planning.
I kind of had my own vision & just reached 150 this weekend so I already had bought or created everything by the time I could view. Oh well!
I'm in the Philly suburbs as well. Main Line.
Congrats and Good luck with your planning. I'm in the home stretch now!