Thanks ladies.... you've all made me feel much better!
I have already contacted a local bar to make a reservation. My Mom, my friend, and I will plan this together! If my sister decides to participate, then great! If not, oh well!
@acw271011 I absolutely would ditch my MOH, however since I'm having a destination wedding, my choices for MOH are SO limited! My guest count is 24. My close friend who's helping me plan my stagette can't come to my wedding, otherwise she would definitely be the MOH.