Gettin the Groom a bit more interested

[Spazz]

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Originally Posted by dragonfly Everton did however plan the most romantic dinner I have ever had. He planned it the day after our wedding in a gazebo on the beach, candles wine and the best salmon I have ever eaten. It was complete with moonlight, the ocean, and dancing to the trio that played at our wedding. It was beautiful, romantic, and month's of secret planning went into it. I have to say this was a way better use of his time then his input on hair flowers, or no hair flowers! Kelly~

Awwww...so sweet! You have such a good man, Kelly!

[vale]

I've got to admit, Richard did all of our website (with input from me like 'that isn't spelt right', 'need another space here', 'another space there' etc etc ) and he's told me the style of clothes that he wants to wear (I'm not letting him loose on any of the colours though ). But his favourite line is 'whatever you want my dear'.

 

Valerie

[Jones4Me]

I TOTALLY think that they should wear the pink speedos under their outfits for JUST ONE picture.... That would probably end up being the best shot of the group and very memorable!! : )

[babycow]

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Originally Posted by dragonfly I'm gonna be honest all I really wanted was a yes man! Uh huh I said it just agree with what I want, but damn it agree like my ideas are the most interesting spectacular ideas ever thought of!!! Poor Everton I gave him such a hard time about his clothes, so he rushes out comes home with a outfit, and what do I do? March him right back to the store to return it all, and then pick out what I thought he should wear, Everton did however plan the most romantic dinner I have ever had. He planned it the day after our wedding in a gazebo on the beach, candles wine and the best salmon I have ever eaten. It was complete with moonlight, the ocean, and dancing to the trio that played at our wedding. It was beautiful, romantic, and month's of secret planning went into it. I have to say this was a way better use of his time then his input on hair flowers, or no hair flowers! I do think it is great Reggie that you want to get more involved, happy planning, and for the record I think the pink speedo's would be perfect Kelly~

Kelly this is exactly the way I feel about FI getting involved. I've told him I want him to agree to what I've already decided, but for heavens sake at least fake some enthusiasm! I've also gone the tears and complete breakdown route, just this past week, he's alittle more sensitive to my needs now. It's like he agrees with everything that I have to say, but then the one thing I think is my best idea ever he says no to. Pisses me off, because I spend all this time thinking of ideas to make OUR wedding special and he either is agrees in a flat monotone, "sure that fine" or says "no, I've never seen that done at any wedding." My response: this isn't any wedding, this is our wedding, our destination wedding, we (I) get to do what ever I want, it's supposed to be fun and different!
feew! nice to get that off my chest!

Reggie-thanks for the advice! FI has been working out to look good on the beach and to be able to carry me in his arms.

[Christine]

Will did our website and kept it updated. He also entered our RSVP's on the site. He wrote half the thank you cards and was there for input when asked, but for the most part it was all me, but honestly I preferred that...I am kinda OCD about planning things.

I am however really going to make an effort for him to be involved in baby stuff.

[Reggie]

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Originally Posted by BrandiB01 I TOTALLY think that they should wear the pink speedos under their outfits for JUST ONE picture.... That would probably end up being the best shot of the group and very memorable!! : )

Im sure this will be done either way...hahah