Thanks ladies! This is our first real tiff since we started. I would stress out, but he's so laid back it helped.
But now we are getting into the nitty gritty, the stress is just a bit too much to bare so days, and we have 4 months left!
We did talk some today - calmly - and he asked for a 'to do list'. It's tough to take time apart when we live together, I was almost thinking time together with NO WEDDING talk was what we needed. Like not just a dinner out, but an activity or a weekend somewhere, etc. Not that we can afford that, ha!
Thanks again... I know we all have our moments, and everyone here understands.
I feel you on the moments. I had a whole sh*tload of stress as a few of you know (bridesmaid drama, family drama.. oh and then one brother in law tried punching the other one at our family shower.. cue circus music) I felt like such a b*tch for about one month and I was stressed, Rich was stressed and we argued almost every second day. It got to be too much with the drama and wedding stuff. But we have all been there like you said. and it will calm down.
Rich and I live together too but I took off on a girls trip with my mom in Montana for a few days, so we had really limited contact. I think even closer to the wedding, I am going to go visit some girlfriends in Edmonton for a few days just to give him and I a breather, cause you know how stressful it is leading up. You could even get away just for a night.. it really helps. We are now less than two months and things are so chill right now (hoping I am not jinxing it) so hopefully it gets that way for you.
Edited by Mrsktobe, 09 September 2014 - 12:43 PM.