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#31 jayejayelynn

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Posted 03 June 2014 - 01:57 PM

my friend just mentioned he wants to bring his cousin, not as his date, just to be there.. not sure how to take that



#32 keezy

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Posted 03 June 2014 - 10:55 PM

I've heard from my other guests that they want to bring other pple to our wedding that we don't even know. I find this totally irritating!!



#33 atennille

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Posted 15 July 2014 - 10:35 PM

Yes, you have every right to feel that way.


                                                            AnnaTennille & Eric

                                                                 May 16, 2015

                                                           Montego Bay, Jamaica

                                  

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#34 MissJen3

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Posted 16 July 2014 - 06:08 AM

I havent even formalized my wedding plans and I am finding myself in this situation, with my parents!

I guess with all their excitement with the engagement and beginning stages of the planning that they are telling everyone, and think it is ok to extend the invite!  We have gotten into a few heated discussions about how this is our wedding, and we have previously agreed that we do not want any guests who we do not have a personal relationship with. One of the reasons we want to do a DW is because if we stayed here we would have to invite people that neither of us knew. Plus, like many others have mentioned, I dont think they fully comprehend that the wedding is not free. Hopefully now that we have discussed the issue at length they wont be inviting any one else. 



#35 Tatimrivera

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Posted 16 July 2014 - 08:36 PM

That's just plain rude. I have had people ask if they could bring someone else but I have yet had anyone book without being invited. Courtesy is those on the invite are the ones invited. No extras are in our budget.
Good Luck :)

#36 atennille

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Posted 21 July 2014 - 08:58 PM

A friend of mine called me yesterday, about inviting someone that I don't care for. I am like really ? I don't need any negative energy on my day. Yes , this i see can be a problem.

                                                            AnnaTennille & Eric

                                                                 May 16, 2015

                                                           Montego Bay, Jamaica

                                  

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