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#11 Martoca

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    Posted 02 June 2013 - 06:54 AM

    As my friends here have said... they have no idea what they are talking about. Whomever posted that is in on it with the judge in Dominican or something hahahaahha

    Listen, first of all people asre joining you to celebrate with you because they love you and not because they want to see you actually get legally married. If it makes them feel better, for those few, bring a certificate from home to the beach and/or a copy of your legal papers and sign the contract right there on the beach. It really is not a big deal so ignore them. A judge in Mexico costs about 400 dollars to go marry you on the beach! And then, it is legal in the US and Canada but still you will have to go to the courthouse and get it validated anyway in the US and trust me, as a Mexican/American citizen I can tell you that having two legal "lives" in two different countries causes nothing but trouble. Sometimes I wish I was just either American OR Mexican citizen; so I can relax and not worry about the IRS and Hacienda (the Mexican IRS) at the same time! Papers, papers, and more beurocracy! Get married legally by mail. I am sure it is possible now :) My point is that the legal part is the least important, it is your union which matters.

     

    So do yourself a favor keep it simple and sweet, get a blessing form a preacher/priest and if I were you, I would make some legal looking contract but in a spoof kind of way :) Make it look official but a bit oversized so people can see it well and let it read something like this... Groom contract:

    I hereby donate all my bathroom space to Mrs. Keeley

    I hereby relinquish my Saturday's to Farmer's Market shopping

    Bride Contract:

    I hereby authorize Mr. Keeley to Wear New Balance Sneakers with Khakis

    I hereby relinquish my right to the TV on Sundays between 12PM and 10PM

     

    Something like that would by my style... The legal stuff is not fun or sexy and whomever thinks so is warped :)

    Good luck, have FUN with it. It is YOUR time, your day and your Marriage. The guests are there to support you and hug you and cheer you on, they will not care if it is legal or not. 

    Viva los Novios!! 

    Martoca's Jimmy



    #12 Martoca

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      Posted 02 June 2013 - 07:03 AM

      As my friends here have said... they have no idea what they are talking about. Whomever posted that is in on it with the judge in Dominican or something hahahaahha

      Listen, first of all, people are joining you to celebrate with you because they love you and want to see you the happiest you have ever been; they want to be a witness to your best moment ever and that will be when you kiss eachother for the first time after you exchange your vows and exchange rings for the first time and not signing some documents. If it makes them feel better, for those few, bring a certificate from home to the beach and/or a copy of your legal papers and sign the contract right there on the beach. It really is not a big deal so ignore them. A judge in Mexico costs about 400 dollars to go marry you on the beach! And then, it is legal in the US and Canada but still you will have to go to the courthouse and get it validated anyway in the US and trust me, as a Mexican/American citizen I can tell you that having two legal "lives" in two different countries causes nothing but trouble. Sometimes I wish I was just either American OR Mexican citizen; so I can relax and not worry about the IRS and Hacienda (the Mexican IRS) at the same time! Papers, papers, and more beurocracy! Get married legally by mail. I am sure it is possible now :) My point is that the legal part is the least important, it is your union which matters.

       

      So do yourself a favor keep it simple and sweet, get a blessing form a preacher/priest and if I were you, I would make some legal looking contract but in a spoof kind of way :) Make it look official but a bit oversized so people can see it well and let it read something like this... Groom contract:

      I hereby donate all my bathroom space to Mrs. Keeley

      I hereby relinquish my Saturday's to Farmer's Market shopping

      Bride Contract:

      I hereby authorize Mr. Keeley to Wear New Balance Sneakers with Khakis

      I hereby relinquish my right to the TV on Sundays between 12PM and 10PM

       

      Something like that would by my style... The legal stuff is not fun or sexy and whomever thinks so is warped :)

      Good luck, have FUN with it. It is YOUR time, your day and your Marriage. The guests are there to support you and hug you and cheer you on, they will not care if it is legal or not. 

      Viva los Novios!! 

      Martoca's Jimmy



      #13 Xarocas

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        Posted 26 August 2013 - 09:35 AM

        Whatever you decide it's absolutely perfect for you! I had the same dilemma and after considering the options chose to have the civil ceremony combined with the symbolic, because (to me) it felt weird to go through the day without actually end the end married to my fiance. But again, I think it depends on each person and you are definately allowed to chose what makes more sense for you!



        #14 jackielemman

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        Posted 02 April 2014 - 03:25 PM

        We went with symbolic for the easy factor. But everyone is different. Do what feels right.



        #15 ChristienEarnest

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          Posted 03 April 2014 - 02:39 AM

          Do whatever you feel like is correct for the two of you.




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