I am Miss J and getting married in December 2013.
Delighted I found this webisite & forum! Though I have to be honest and say that we are not having a Destination wedding.
We have been thinking of it though (it was either Jamaica or New York) but have now more or less settled on having a Civil Ceremony here in Ireland and then go straight for our honeymoon.
We arent actually telling anyone we are getting married, besides our 2 required witnessess, and will be posting out invitations for our PARTY/AHR, before we fly off on our honeymoon.