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#41 Chiquita

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    Posted 18 October 2007 - 05:37 PM

    OMG Shelley.. I'm so sorry to hear this.. you are an amazing woman for being so understanding! We are all here for you!

    #42 1elephant

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      Posted 18 October 2007 - 05:47 PM

      wow, shelley! i'm sad and happy at the same time - sad that you won't have a starfish beach wedding next month, and happy that you were able to work thru this with amos. like everyone said, he certainly is lucky to have you!

      Originally Posted by NYJen
      Shelley - NOOOOOO!!!! OMG - I don't know what to say. I know how excited you were about everything. I'm so upset for you right now.

      What can I do to help you? Do you want me to make some phone calls for you? Send out emails? Whatever you want, I can help you.

      If you want, I can come down to MD next weekend and we can go out and get stupid drunk. We're all here for you. Whatever you need!!!!
      jen, i can't do next weekend, but if you can do this weekend, i'll go with you

      #43 Jenn

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        Posted 18 October 2007 - 06:07 PM

        OMG Shelley!!! I'm so sorry to hear that! I can't imagine... I'm glad you two were able to work this out though, and you know that we all will be here to help you plan your new wedding :) [Please don't ditch us for the knotties or brides.com - lol]

        Are you guys still going to go on vacation with your guests? Have you told them yet?

        If there is anything you need, let us know . The Philly girls can travel - we'll come take you out for some drinky-drinks!

        #44 Carolena7

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          Posted 18 October 2007 - 06:14 PM

          Shelley, I'm sorry to hear that you and Amos have had to make such a difficult decision. I do have to say though that I completely understand. James and I were originally supposed to get married on October 25th of this year and because of certains members of our families being ill and not being able to make the trip and also some other reasons we had to postpone our wedding to March of next year. It was a hard decision to make and when October 25th rolls around it won't be an easy day knowing that I was supposed to be getting married that day. If you need someone to talk to I just wanted to let you know that I've been in your shoes and I know how you feel. Hugz..

          #45 Spazz

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            Posted 18 October 2007 - 06:31 PM

            Originally Posted by Hopels
            If there is anything you need, let us know . The Philly girls can travel - we'll come take you out for some drinky-drinks!
            MD is a short drive away! We can make it a road trip and come to see you Shelley!!!

            #46 Can'tHardlyWait

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              Posted 18 October 2007 - 06:39 PM

              Oh Shelley, I am so sorry! I know how excited you have been for CR but you know it doesnt matter where you and Amos get married... you are going to love each other and make your commitment and it's going to be amazing where ever it is! Stay strong and make sure you two talk this out - honesty is everything...

              #47 Saraha

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                Posted 18 October 2007 - 07:26 PM

                Im so sorry to hear this, you have been my inspiration for many ideas. I know you were so excited and have been so helpful.... Just remember everything happens for a reason, although it may be hard to see now! No matter what you will be an amazing bride and wife!

                #48 BayBug

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                  Posted 18 October 2007 - 07:31 PM

                  Shelley, I am so sad that it did not work out. Man! I was so hoping to see another Costa Rica wedding. I know how you feel though. Only my parents came to my wedding. Everyone else was his family and my friends. It is tough on families, but you really need to do what is best for you because in the end it will all work out. I do hope someday you will have your destination wedding. I am so sad…………

                  #49 Christine

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                  Posted 18 October 2007 - 09:23 PM

                  Shelley, I will be out of town until Wednesday but please let me know if there is anything I can do, I am really close to you (a quick drive through the city and I am in MD) and can come help with whatever you need, even if you just want to go out and chat.
                  Christine + Will (married 7/20/07) + Ainsleigh (born 6/25/08) + Nolan (born 11/9/10) + Delaney (born 12/31/13) = One Very Happy Family!

                  #50 starchild



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                    Posted 18 October 2007 - 09:48 PM

                    Sorry Shelley :o( But you know what? You two still love eachother and will get married when the time is right. Sometimes this stuff just happens but hang on to your love. It will work out!!

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